Thank you all for your replies. It seems people here are still as helpful as ever and I really appreciate it. I will take the suggestions you've given me to heart.
Some of you have asked questions about me and I'll be happy to answer them.
1. I'm a healty 25 year old who constantly jogs in the mourning and sometimes lifts weights. I have no disabilities in my body, so it can't be a physical reason as to why my speed is horrible.
2. Speaking of that, it really is horrible. All the coaches I have been to have said my ball is way too slow for my age and I agree with them. When a 60 year old lady can let it rip faster than me speedwise, I know I have problems, no offense to the 60 year olds out there.
3. My coaches are flabbergasted to my speed problem because no matter what adjustments we make, I can't get a burst of speed in my shot. It's not a communication problem because they commended me for listening to them and as you could see I too have high praise for them. Nevertheless no matter how much I fool around with my swing, timing and speed of footwork, my ball can't just get a burst of speed.
It's like practicing hitting your target board on the lane, only instead of hitting your target, your always throwing it into the gutter. It's so frustrating because you don't have results to work with even through luck.
4. Of course I will listen to the people you've suggested even though I might not tell them what I'm looking for. That's why I posed such a question: if those people can gain your respect, they will definitely have mines.
My goal in bowling is not about the money or tournaments or even the competitive nature of the sport, but the understanding of the game to it's deepest levels and beyond. I want to reach a level where people can say "man, that guy sure knows how to bowl. He knows his stuff." I'm hopeful the people who I see can point me in that direction.
Thanks again for your suggestions.