Hampster,
You are already ahead of the game. You said it yourself, you don't want to go in and make yourself look bad because you have an inflated head... You know what your are up against. You know our region has some of the best players top to bottom. If you can afford it financially, then I say do it. Pete runs a tight ship in the SW Region, always well run, on time, etc.. Bowl a couple and see how you do. If you KNOW you are going to bowl 4-8 a year or more, then joining the PBA would be more worth it, to save money on the entry fees. Your location is not bad travel wise, you have a number of MW tournaments close too.
Who gives a rats butt what some toes think about you bowling? You bowl because you want to, because you want to test yourself against challenging lane conditions with top competition. If you do well, then YOU know that you have done well, and that's all that matters!!! It's a great feeling. Oh, and you have your wife BEHIND you on this. That is huge, a lot can be said good about your wife as a wife and woman!! Believe me, I know, what it's like to try and bowl NOT having the support of my wife, hell I was her pro in a pro-am, that's how we met, and I kinda needed the money, and she beat me down about bowling in the first place. I've never met her, and I like your wife!! Tournament bowling is tough enough as it is, having her support is awesome!
Finally, depending on which tournament(s) you bowl, you might even see me making a come back this year! That's worth .04 cents and Sprite right there!! Good luck to you, whatever you decide.
Mike Austin's Bowling Dynamix Pro Shop
Houston, TX
I'm back doing what I love and couldn't be happier!!!