I used to have a rather wide thumb hole - I thought it would help with a clean release because I used to cling to the ball too long and loft a lot. I have quite slender fingers and thumb, rather a ladies' hand
But after a suggestion from my pro shop owner I tried a small pitch adjustment and started to experiment with tape. I now have a tighter thumb hole, with some white tape under and at the side of my thumb, and I also blow into the hole to keep it as dry as possible (but do not use rosin for the thumb, only the fingers).
This adjustment helped me well to achieve a more relaxed grip and an easier and earlier release, with a much better leverage on the ball. The thumb hole is still not really tight, but this minor change improved my game a lot.
If you have problems with a swelling thumb, either go for the bigger hole and lots of tape for easy adjustment, or think a bout a switch grip - you can have several thumb inserts with different diameters and even slight pitch differences, and this might be the most convenient solution.
Anyway, only trial and error will yield something that works for you. If you have a ball that you do not use often (anymore), maybe start there and have the thumb hole enlarged and experiment with tape as a 1st step.
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DizzyFugu - Reporting from Germany
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