Joe, At the Nataionals, the ABC oils 3 times a day: 7:30am. 2:30pm, and 8:30pm.. Team squads are at 2:30 and 8:30, which means that the afternoon doubles/singles squads are following a team squad. Ae the lanes broken down, sure, but that what you get. What you got at the NC tournament was nothing unusual.
If you have any experience with multi-sqaud tournaments, you should know that you may get second squad oil, and have noone to blame but yourself if you don't have the right equipment with you. aA far as I know, what they did was the norm.
As for this to cause people to quit bowling. you have got be be kidding. It may stop them from bowling that tournament again, but I seriously doubt it is driving them to quit completely.