I AM A BIG FAN OF URETHANE.
That being said, in the modern environment, there is NO WAY that it can compete with reactives on a day to day basis. NONE.
I prefer urethane, WHEN THE SHOT ALLOWS, but that isn't very often. The statement above about urethanes strength being its weakness was the absolute truth on modern lanes with todays conditioners. My high game this season was with 900 Global Shadow Ops, which is an 80/20 urethane/reactive mix. Shot 278, but the ball was absolutely great for 7 frames, then started to fade really fast. By the end of the game, it was all I could do to get it to the pocket, and it had become a marshmallow.
Carry down killed the reaction.
If I myself had to recommend something to you, it would more likely be a mild reactive over true urethane. I don't have any experience with urethane/reactive hybrids other than the Shadow Ops, but it is subject to the carry down just like a regular urethane. The new Badger Infused is mixed the other way round, with an 80/20 reactive/urethane mix, and may be much better, and Ive heard the Storm Fever Pitch is also a “reactive acting†urethane hybrid of some sort.
For me, the very next ball I drill is going to be a mild, lower rg, lower topweight solid reactive with a two inch pin out, with the cg on my pap, and the pin on a line from my pap to my ring finger, a “2 x 0†drilling. Had one years ago, and shot many good games and sets with it playing right up the track.
Good luck.