The problem with society today is a lack of trying to understand another ones point of view. If I don't agree with you, I'm just a big cry baby, and I'm wrong, so I get called names. Maybe you should try reading someone's point of view for understanding, instead of trying to belittle them and call them names for seeing things different than you do.
I have never ONCE told a two hander he's breaking the rules. In fact JUST the OPPOSITE, I try to teach them, if they are going to do it, use your legs, and show them videos of Belmo, so maybe they can keep the ball in play. There is a difference in acceptance, and promoting it.
But you instantly jump on this thought process like if I see a problem with how it alters the playing field, I'm just a jerk. Try Seeing something from another ones perspective.
It isn't about being scared, its about looking at the facts, they are there. This isn't personal, they are facts. Name calling makes things personal.
Sounds like your son, who was belittled, would understand what I'm talking about.