So for quite a while now when I check my track after throwing a ball my first two or three rings start on the thumb hole, I don't roll over the finger hole.  I have tried many a different hand positions, releasing earlier and later etc.  I'll post a video link for you to see what I'm doing.  Basically I am lost and I have a new Crux on the way  and I want to figure this out before I punch it up.  I dunno if it's me, a layout issue (the ball in the video is a Critical Theory drilled pretty standard pin up above the ring finger) or possibly a curse.  Any ideas are more than welcome, I appreciate the help.

I would check with your PSO to see if your span needs shortening or more forward in the fingers. I would also work with a coach for a few sessions to get that timing better. Understandable about the shoes but the timing is so late that that could be a contributor.

Read Justrico's answer in this post: 

http://www.ballreviews.com/miscellaneous/tracking-over-the-thumb-t272363.0.html

Your problem could result from a poorly fitting thumb hole. If the thumb hole is too large, you will squeeze the ball to maintain your grip. We all apply some pressure with the thumb, but a snug thumb grip will minimize squeezing and help the thumb get cleanly out of the ball. Tape may help tighten the grip.

As other posters have recommended, your local pro shop may be able to help.