I have the same originally described problem at times. Boy have I learned a lot by reading the replies — and Thanks to all.
But I might add this: I have two balls that are very much alike, both from different mfgs. They're same type, weight, etc., etc., etc. Only differences are core and coverstock material and small Rg/Diff numbers. If I happen to have both balls with me and run into this trouble, there are times that one will definitely carry better than the other. There are other times they'll react the same, though. It may all in my head, but I'll switch balls and magic seems to happen.
The only other thing I would say is Don't get discouraged; hang in there!