More and more it feels like I'm just the guy that puts holes in the ball. People come in with requests, demands, or instructions, and any questions they ask just further set or fuel their nearly predetermined idea of what they want. For a while there I actually started feeling like a professional, or somebody who was making a difference, but as soon as you start butting heads with people, your stomach drops. If people want knowledge, a pro shop is apparently the last place they go. They'll ask other coaches, other people, pop on here with questions, but they won't trust their pro shop. All I keep hearing is, "this is what I want," or "this is the way I hold the ball," or "I want to do it this way." I'm not happy or content being the monkey on the press, but at the same time I'm in no position to try and influence a change.
I know I yammer on about the same crap all the time, but I find things a lot easier to take if I have no misconceptions or unrealistic expectations about my situations. So what do you really want from your pro shop operator? I'm not saying pro shop guys all know what they're doing by any stretch, but I suppose I don't get why everybody thinks they know more than professionals who do something for a living, and honestly I'm bitter about it. I don't spend dozens of hours a week thinking, reading, learning, and writing about bowling just to drill someone's thumbhole 3 sizes too big because they like to grip it, yet still complain about that thumb being twice the size of their other one, and won't let me do a thing about it. I'm sure that sounds arrogant, but it's just insanely frustrating when people won't let you help, it's like dealing with one teenager after another.