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What would you do if, while bowling your state's tournament, a member of the squad bowling the tournament on the lanes with you, takes it upon himself to remove your spare ball from the rack and place it at the table where you are sitting.

The ball return was set up to handle twelve balls on top, and eight at the bottom, allowing for two balls for each bowler. This guy decided that he wanted only ten or eleven balls on top, and that I should keep my spare ball at the table where I was sitting.

I left a ten pen and was looking all around for my spare ball, only to find it sitting in the chair at our table. I ask who moved my ball and was told that the guy, who by this time had come up to bowl in head of me, moved my ball. I politely touched him on his shoulder and told him not to move my ball again. He started yelling, one ball on the rack per bowler, despite the fact that there was nineteen on the top and bottom of the racks, and would have been twenty if he had not moved my ball. He also complained about me touching him, and said that he would call the police. I told him call the police, but that was my ball, and the police would have a problem if they moved my ball off the rack.

The guy kept on talking, so I told the guy that to me, there was no difference in him moving my ball, and me touching him to get his attention. He kept on talking, so I walked away. He left and some of his teammates came over and said let's just let it go, and keep bowling. We all agreed, but the guy came back and continued to run his mouth.  I am the last person to cause a problem and everyone from our center knows it, but I had taken about as much as I was going to take.

I told the guy that I walked away once, but if he walked back up on me, I was goin to beat his old arse.I was serious, and I guess he knew it. He shut up and kept his distance from me.

I was later told that he went to the office and complained to the tournament officials. They did not even bother to come out on the lanes, which I am sure made the guy more upset. I also found out that this guy got into it with another bowler while at the tournament, and everybody pretty much thought he was a a--hole.


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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #16 on: April 09, 2009, 10:31:41 PM »

BTW, I think your profile needs an update!

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #17 on: April 09, 2009, 10:57:46 PM »
At one time,there was a rule about not being able to use another person's ball without permission.
 Although taking it to the extreme,unless you gave him permission to move your ball,that could be taken as using your equipment without your permission.
 Other than that,you handled it very well. I would have done the same thing.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #18 on: April 09, 2009, 11:40:48 PM »
We  had a guy in our assoc. that did similar stuff.  He found something to "officially" complain about every tournament.  After one city tournament where he'd caused conflict, he wrote a formal complaint about other bowlers' dirty towels sitting on and/or next to his ball in the ball return rack, therefore getting oil transfer from their towels to his ball.  He wanted the tournament committee to forbid towels from being in the ball return rack and fine bowlers for doing so.  

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #19 on: April 10, 2009, 01:46:08 AM »
i can kinda see the guys point for taken it off...... iv had problems with ppl for have 2 diff strike balls on the rack AND using both. the guy wanted me to "rotate" them back and forth on the rack.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #20 on: April 10, 2009, 02:03:15 AM »
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i can kinda see the guys point for taken it off...... iv had problems with ppl for have 2 diff strike balls on the rack AND using both. the guy wanted me to "rotate" them back and forth on the rack.


This has been a problem for me in some venues in the past, too.

Ironically enough, I was doing this for a few games at the same tournament ccrider attended (using one ball on one lane, a second ball on the other). Fortunately for me, I was sharing a pair of lanes with people who were actually SANE. I had no problems.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #21 on: April 10, 2009, 08:14:00 AM »
I think it was very rude for the idiot to move your ball. Especially since there's room.  
I'd probably not say anything, but next time he went to pick up his ball it wouldn't be where he left it either...


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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #22 on: April 10, 2009, 08:30:06 AM »
Come on guys. He moved your bowling ball. Big deal. I'm sure he is an a-hole, but be the bigger man and move on.

Something similar to this happened when I was younger with some of my friends and they were ignorant enough to follow the guy outside running there mouths. Turned out this guy was an ex-Marine and knocked about 3 teeth out of one of the kids mouth before anyone could step in and stop it.

Move on. The guy is obviously an a-hole and no matter what you type on here will not change it.
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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #23 on: April 10, 2009, 11:42:58 AM »
Mike,

I was not going to bowl 3 games with this jerk moving my bowling ball around the whole time. As Jess says, there was plenty or room on the racks for each person to have two balls on the racks.

I am really not trying to change anything about the incident. Just wanted to know how some of you guys that have been bowling longer than I have would handle it.

I have had a teeth knocked out in a fight before. It's not nearly as bad as you think.  Any man that is will not defend himself or his property for fear of losing the fight should check in his man card at the counter.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #24 on: April 10, 2009, 01:22:39 PM »
Then it sounds like you should have packed up your bag and went home.

If something like that gets you off your game that easily where you are so worried about some crotchety old guy moving your "stuff" while you bowl, then he accomplished what he set out to do in the first place which was rattle your chains.

I could care less if he would have moved my ball as I am not in such a big hurry to prove how "manly" I am. I have no problem with my manhood and don't have to threaten old men to prove it to anyone.

Some people in this world are in a hurry to be "Tough Guys". Good luck to you and may you find what you seek. Hopefully he is not tougher than you and if he is, there is someone to pull him off before it gets ugly.
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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #25 on: April 10, 2009, 01:53:18 PM »
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Then it sounds like you should have packed up your bag and went home.

If something like that gets you off your game that easily where you are so worried about some crotchety old guy moving your "stuff" while you bowl, then he accomplished what he set out to do in the first place which was rattle your chains.

I could care less if he would have moved my ball as I am not in such a big hurry to prove how "manly" I am. I have no problem with my manhood and don't have to threaten old men to prove it to anyone.

Some people in this world are in a hurry to be "Tough Guys". Good luck to you and may you find what you seek. Hopefully he is not tougher than you and if he is, there is someone to pull him off before it gets ugly.
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If you choose to run home, that's your choice in this country. For me, I chose to stay and bowl without being harassed by a jerk. My choice. In my opinion, your position is about as stupid as the guy's opinion that he had a right to dictate whether I could leave my ball on the rack and then move my ball. Me packing my stuff and going home was never an option. I am not that type of guy.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #26 on: April 10, 2009, 03:24:50 PM »
KICK HIS ASS SEABASS!!
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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #27 on: April 10, 2009, 04:12:39 PM »
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 Any man that is will not defend himself or his property for fear of losing the fight should check in his man card at the counter.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #28 on: April 10, 2009, 10:58:04 PM »
Wow, you would not last 2 frames in the tournaments I bowl.  Spare balls are taken off the rack all the time by random people.  And the common response is "Thanks I forgot to get it myself." Not a confrontation. Now if it was your strike ball that is a different story.  But even if it was, on the first occurrence, you were out of line.  It is a spare ball.  Where I come from they do not belong on the rack.  One ball per bowler.
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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #29 on: April 11, 2009, 07:36:56 AM »
I had a similar situation happen Thursday at our 5 man league with one major difference, I had forgotten to take my spare ball off the rack (I normally take it off after using) and the leadoff bowler picked it up and asked me if it was ok to put the ball at our table.  I told him thanks and that was that.  

If I had to go looking for the ball the next time I needed it to shoot at a corner pin I would of had a visit with the individual as well.  Common courtesy is all it takes to avoid situations like happened to you IMO.

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Re: What Would You Do if This Happen to You at State Tournaments:
« Reply #30 on: April 11, 2009, 08:56:28 AM »
You handled it exactly as I would have.  But then again, I've never been accused of handling things well...