Wiping the ball of excess oil after a shot can't hurt. Blowing in a thumb hole as pointed out, lets you relax your thumb. More importantly, bowling like most sports relies on muscle memory. What you are doing is establishing a pre-shot routine. Ever see a basketball player shoot a free throw? Might spin the ball in his hands twice, bounce it three times, and shoot. Another does more bounces and does not spin it before shooting. Point is, do the same exact thing before every shot and it primes your muscle memory for the action, in this case, free shooting.
I come up to the ball return, pick ball up, spin ball three times on towel held in right hand, blow in thumb, grip ball, always look at my focal point, then to my aiming point, and go. Like I said, primes the muscle memory for your shot and helps cleanse your mind of extraneous thoughts. Watch the pros, they all use a pre-shot routine. Try it. You'll see good results.