I was always a highly competitive person. When I was younger, I played many sports, but only bowled occasionally.
When I graduated high school, friends (read team mates) drifted apart and work took much of my time. I got married at 19, and had to earn a living, so not much time or money for sports. Then, one night we went bowling just to get out of the house for a bit. Before we left the center, we had joined a casual league and began to bowl on a regular basis. Since then, I have never looked back.
When I say highly competitive, I mean totally, obsessively, completely self-involved competitive. All other things lost their validity in the quest to be the best at whatever I am doing, and bowling was no different.
Bowling filled an empty spot that other sports had once filled. It fired my competitive juices, challenged me both mentally and physically to perform at a higher level than my competitors, and I LOVED it. I still do.
I'm no longer 25, I'm 49. And I'm no longer the best, but I'm still O.K.. Time, and age, have taken their toll on me. Things that I still remember HOW to do, my body refuses to cooperate. My legs hurt, my fingers hurt, and I don't have the money, time, or incentive to practice anymore. I'm tired of chasing the game, but I still love it. I love to do it, I love to teach it, I love to study it and learn all that there is. I've been at it 26 years and have had to re-learn bowling three times because of technological advantages, but that's part of why I love it. It is always challenging both mentally and physically.
You'd be amazed at what old farts have floating around in their heads.
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"The difference between stupidity and genius is that genius has its limits."
Albert Einstein