I don't post on here too much, mostly because I hear enough about bowling in the bowling center, at home, eating dinner, and when I'm hanging out with friends that I don't generally need or want another avenue to address bowling. But I can't help but comment here since 40 Boards & A Ball is my event too.
It's tough sitting behind the desk.
Jeff and I are always open to requests, ideas, and criticisms. We try to keep an open mind concerning everyone's ideas. The thing is, every single person with an "idea" swears that they "know what the bowlers want." You tell me, if person A is saying something different then persons B and C, but all claim to have the "know" on what it is our events need to draw more entries, who is right? How can 3 different people all saying something different all be right?
This is what we put up with month after month with Boards & Balls Tour and year after year with Opposite's Attract. It does get old, it's true.
I'm not saying people should support us just because of our efforts or anything like that. I don't think that is what Jeff or Tony is saying either.
I think the point is that, too many people are disillusioned with their ability, and more importantly, too many people have lost sight of the spirit of competition. No matter what pattern we put down, there will be complainers. They will usually be of the 5 out of 6 people that don't cash, even if they were the same person that was part of the 1 out of 6 that cashed the month or week before.
I want to see bowlers get some heart. No matter what the shot is or isnt, everyone in the field is playing on it. Every event is an opportunity to learn something that can be used to perfect one's game. But bowlers now are just too conditioned to having it handed to them that they don't want to work for it anymore. And you know what, that is fine because there are events, including some of ours, that provide the opportunity to have it "handed" to you in the form of a house shot. And even that isn't good enough, because for the people that want house shots, and we give some % of house shots, they will still complain on the one event they attend that isn't house shot. It's really a no win.
I'm not behind the desk to prove anything or buy my next car. I just want to give people something to bowl. We will never satisfy everyone, but hopefully we can figure out how to satisfy most. I think what Tony and Jeff are getting at though, is that, its unfortunate that so many opportunities exist for local bowlers now to bowl in whatever type of event they want, be it house shot tournament, sport shot tournament, pbax tournament, doubles tournament, marathon tournament, you name it, and still there is always folks whining. Just lace em up and bowl!
/rant
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Latise Parker
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