Sorry you had a bad experience Andrew. I know Gary very well and couldn't ever say I saw him treat a person poorly.
I also believe you could say poor things about any pro bowler. Many say bad things about many of the stars of yesteryear and present.....wish it would have been a better experience for you.
"Dickinson, a three-time Steve Nagy PBA Sportsmanship Award winner from 1972-74, won three Tour titles in 1973." This is a peer given award...Gary does typify being a gentleman on and off the lanes.
BTW--The one guy who I think most emulates Gary's game is Dave Arnold both very robot like but accurate as heck with medium revs and very stoic....not what the new style player is all about in any way, shape or form.
Scott