3.5" Pin to CG doesn't mean anything. To give you information that will help you out, we need your PAP (Positive Axis Point) measurement, the Pin to PAP (Positive Axis Point) distance, and preferably, the drilling angle and angle to the VAL (Vertical Axis Line). I would suggest going into the pro shop, and have him give you those specifications, and if he is unwilling to help you out, then bring that information back here and some of us can give you a more exact idea of what you can do with surface, re-drilling, adding an X-hole, etc., to help the ball do what you want it to do.
Right now, people can give you general advice, but we need more information to try and help you out. If you don't want the help, and want to just vent about a ball without exhausting all options, that's fine too, just say so.