I'd also suggest putting a weak drilling (5.5-6" pin over the bridge area) Neptune, rather than the Mars (pearl vs solid/pearl combo). The Mars will be slightly stronger than the Neptune in all situations.
If the Neptune with that drilling is still too strong, you can always use a hook & backend reducing polish like Valentino's UFO or Delayed Reaction. I prefer UFO because it is easier to use. The ball will go longer, hook less and have less backend.
The Hornet is a viable alternative to a Neptune, might not need such a weak drilling but is more expensive upon initial purchase, but will probably last almost a lifetime.
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