I have a Crux, and I think it's a great ball; however, it gets very little use because I rarely run into the kind of oil that requires such a beast. That being said, the Crux is far more useable than past oil monsters I've encountered. Unlike most, you can keep moving deeper and deeper inside, and the Crux wants to keep coming back. I've never encountered an oiler that lets you get inside as deep as this one does. Most strong balls bleed out and die when you move in. For me, the Crux doesn't do that; however, I don't feel like playing 4th and 5th arrow in Game 1 on league night, so I often defer to balls that allow me to keep my angles a bit more in front of me.
Long story short, the Crux is a very good ball, and I don't necessarily think that the IQ Nano is better. The IQ Nano looks really, really good to me as well. As others have said, I think that it's a case of most Tour players not needing the built-in action that balls like the Crux offer. When you think about it, whenever you've heard about "Tour" edition bowling balls, they've almost always been weaker/smoother versions of the ones they sell to donkeys like us. That's because the guys/gals don't need more hook; they need predictability and control. I think that the IQ Nano (and really all of the IQ Tour balls) are great for predictability and control. As such, most of those Tour guys (apparently) are favoring the IQ to the Crux. It doesn't mean one is better than the other; it's just matchups.
For what it's worth, I was at a high-level collegiate tournament in Addison, Illinois, yesterday, and I saw quite a few of both of these balls being thrown with success. Again, anymore, there are very few "good" or "bad" bowling balls. It's just about matching ball to bowler to conditions.