Jess,
I am a swell guy, if you get to know me. But I also am a straight-shooter. I have done a lot of international traveling for my work, inlcuding trips to SE Asia. So I know the prices of these tickets. And to say it costs as much to go to Reno as it does to go to New Zealand is BS. As I said in my post, the costs aren't something anyone can do repeatedly, but for a vacation trip, the cost are reasonable. Sure you can always find lower fares to more desirable destinations....but there is a reason for that, the planes are almost always full. I have family in Las Vegas, so trust me, I know how difficult it can be to get tickets on these flights. I also understand what it means to take a family, as my wife and son have accompanied me in the past. So I know the costs to Reno, and to many other cities as well. For the last 3 years I traveled from Calgary to bowl. Try checking on flights from Calgary to Baton Rouge if you think flights to Reno are expensive for you...and we don't have Southwest there. I didn't try to single you out, but I am damn tired of hearing everyone complain about going to Reno so much, when they have nothing to offer as a reasonable substitute. No one wants to pay more for their membership fees, no one wants to help out and put in the time with their local convention center boards to try and get this in their area, and the list goes on and on.
I am very sorry to hear of your health issues, and I wish you a speedy recovery from all of them. There is old saying, and it escapes me who originally said it, that goes like this "Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you are right". I don't think I have to explain it, but that is what I meant by your statement of "can't win a thing". If anyone has that attitude, then you have already lost. I have had 2 of my worst performances ever the last two years at the Open. But when I go back this year, I will be going with the mindset that me and my team have a real shot to win if we all roll well. If you are going to go, you need to be prepared mentally and physically, as much as possible for every person. Going in with a defeatist attitude is already losing 50% of the battle.
There are many reasons tournament participation is down. The overall economy is part of it. But it is also this country's attitude of "me first", I think. All everyone cares about is "Me". And while that is partially a neccessity in today's world, people have taken it too far. Just as I mentioned in my post to you, no one want's their memberships fees to go up by $5, they don't want the USBC to curtail the honor score awards, yet they don't want to go to Reno to keep the tournament costs down so more money can get into the USBC to fund things. Everybody wants and wants, yet no one is willing to give up anything, especially money. This is fueling a lot of people who are "tired of Reno". I am tired of Reno too, I very much would like to get back to traveling to cities all over the country. But those days are gone. Between the Convention Centers being unwilling to lose year after year business and risking that these shows won't ever return, to cities/board unwilling to put together an offer, and the lack of interest in anyone actually getting off their sofa to actually work with their localites....you get Reno time and time again. Everyone wants to complain, but no one is willing to see how much of the problem they really are.