Hello,
Good topic. If I were king of the YABA world, I'd suggest allowing you to bowl 2 or 3 adult tournaments a year and still retain junior status, so you can get it out of your system, so to speak, and not make it such a crushing decision wether to go adult or not.
I believe some of the issues regarding 'gambling' are a bit backwards, but it's important to follow the rules as they are and work in a positive way to change them, rather than to break them, get caught, and ruin the most fun times of your life.
I might add that any reputable director will return unclaimed funds back to that group's fund, and not take it to Fiji with them. I don't see how anyone doing that would stay in business very long. Our unclaimed funds help our year-end tournament prize funds, etc, etc...
See you soon at JBTSW events
Jeff